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Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts
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2013-01-06

Enjoy your free time with the baby on holiday

Creating bubbles and bring books to small are some suggestions to maximize the summer with the baby

is important to spend time with the baby in the summer. Holidays are the best time to enjoy all that small could not be during working hours. In summer, take all the time (and energy) available can greatly help to strengthen the bond with the child.
It is important to enjoy the outdoors with your baby, promote relations between small and books, as well as familiar to the child, in general, sees little.

The importance of spending time with the baby in summer:

Holidays with children are very different from those experienced before or after having children,  when they are grown. The baby requires almost constant attention and that requires that all activities will be planned according to their presence. This applies to travel to the rest of the vacation time, when fathers and mothers do not go to their jobs but should exercise parents 24 hours a day.

The baby must learn to play and for this you need motivation and parent company:

The important thing about the holidays is that you can use to perform all activities for the remainder of the year are limited to short times of the day or week. "Good thing the baby spend time outside you can always spend the rest of the year. It need not be specific activities or too complex: it can be as simple as playing with the children."
Often parents do not devote exclusive time to play with the baby during the year. No wonder that parents take advantage of the little leisure hours for other activities. However, the child also needs to learn to play and, in this sense, the role of parents is crucial: should motivate you, to be with him, talk and listen, but the baby just yet issued its infancy.

Enjoy the outdoors with the child:

It is important to use the summer to enjoy the outdoor spaces and the outdoors with the baby.While sun exposureis dangerous for very young children, it is advisable (after taking appropriate precautions) get outside and go with the park to play.
For the baby, it is very challenging to use their five senses to discover the elements of nature: whether crawling or gives little steps across the lawn, notice the roughness of the soil and the bark of trees on which it rests, and its odor and temperature.

Creating bubbles is a simple proposal to enjoy with baby outdoor in summer:
A simple option to enjoy the outdoors with the child, and that most children like, is creating bubbles. To do this, you can buy a single bottle of bubbles or create your own, with a wire that is given accordingly, and use soapy water.
The frothy liquid required to form bubbles is obtained by mixing water with dishwashing detergent (or shampoo) and a touch of glycerin. Bubbles can provide hours of entertainment to small, especially if the adult does reluzcan large bubbles under the sun.

Baby and books

•Summer is a good time to encourage the baby bond with the books that will last over time:

Summeris a good time to bring the baby to the world of books. This approach can be accomplished in two different ways.
On the one hand, through the reading aloud of stories and tales. Although at this age the child still does not understand the meaning of the story itself is perceived to be speaking in a special way and receive voice inflections.
The hours of reading can become a special moment even before the little have realized that you are reading a story, which will favor the birth of the child the important link with books.
Moreover, the baby will use the book almost like a toy. The small,  when you have a year to live, is recognizing shapes, so you should give copies colorful, with many images and hardcovers. Your way to experiment with it include it to his mouth and try to break it (which will if given a book not suitable for their age). In this way, the child will become familiar with the book since before knowing its actual use and the fantasies that keeps inside.

Contact with the family to which the child sees little:

Holidays can serve to take the baby to contact relatives who see little (or nothing) because of lack of time or who live far away. This is what happens to children who spend their summers in the village of their parents or grandparents: the arrival of a new family member becomes a real event.
But not only in the villages. The pace that many people are in the city causes, even though the distance is not so, visits or meetings between family members or friends are sporadic. Vacation days are an excellent opportunity to compensate, at least in part, those absences and share with babies whole days.

2012-12-29

Why is the baby crying? The seven most common reasons

Crying young child is different according to need or want to express feelings

For babies, crying is the main way of communicatingto people their needsand emotions. This article explains the seven most common reasons why a small child cries: hungry, tired or sleepy, feeling hot or cold, is uncomfortable, have colic, is unsafe or has excessive stimulation.

Crying is the main communication tool of the baby, so you should know what is behind the sob

Crying and body language are the main weapons Baby communication before acquiring the ability to express themselves verbally. The parents' job is to identify what causes regret to find, well, the solutions that soothe and comfort to your child. But is it possible to know at all times what's wrong baby? The reasons for the crying of the child may be diverse, including seven are the most frequent.

1.Hungry:
The crying of hunger is one of the most common in the baby and so usually understand also parents.Ana Isabel Fraga, author of 'The instruction manual you lost when your child was born. Case Studies' (Mandala Publishing, 2009) and blogger in Baby Whisperer, notes that the desire to eat baby "are easy to identify with a little practice."Provides guidance calculate when was the last shot of breast milk (or formula), but we must also take into account if you took the right amount or too much milk regurgitated later.These factors affect the baby feel hungry "soon".As Fraga says,"it is essential to be aware of other possible signs,"as if he puts his hands to his mouth, stick out your tongue and licking his lips.
2.Tired or sleepy:
Fatigue and sleep often cause the baby's crying. Mourn for this reason is their way of telling adults "leave me alone" so you can sleep.
When the baby is so tired that you fall asleep costs triggered what Fraga called" tears of exhaustion,"which begins in a mild (as a protest) and "gradually rises to a higher pitch. "Other times, the small tears produces a type of plane (that neither rises nor low intensity) which is actually a form of "block auditory stimuli that keep you from relax and unwind. "This kind of sob called "mantra cry" qualifies Fraga.

3.Feeling cold or heat:
The heat or extreme cold also causes the baby start to mourn Adverse environmental factors also cause the baby's crying. You can recognize if the infant has heat with sweat from your body or body temperature presented. In case of cold, it is important to see if you have blue lips or toes, tip of nose and hands extremely cold.

4.It is uncomfortable:
The baby also expressed their lack of comfort by crying. It can be caused, among other things, by poor posture when picked up in armsto stop you from moving freely. At other times it is a clothing label that touches the skin (and annoying) or a position in the crib or car that irritates. In this regard, we should remember that crying can be triggered also by the need for a diaper change when dirty.

5.He suffers from colic:
It is anintense and continuous crying, often repeating the same times of the day and is accompanied by repetitive movements of the legs towards the belly. These signs show called colic which, despite its name, is not related to an intestinal problem, but occurs for unknown reasons. Not all babies suffer and generally disappears after three or four months. Once that is known, it is easy to identify by their parents.

6.It is uncertain:
After nine months in the womb,  the baby must face a new environment devoid of recollection which he enjoyed in the womb and in which, as a result, feel more insecure.This causes insecurity occasionally small crying.The way to calm him is to offer the same sensations experienced before birth. To stop the crying, parents should take the child in his arms close to his body, cooing and rocking rhythmically and rhythmic, to restore peace of mind.

7.Has an overstimulation:
Sometimes, babies may feel overstimulated and need a little calmand quiet to relax around. Your response to this situation is often crying. An environment too noisy, too much activity around him, too many visitors and even a game too long with little are some situations that may irritate to the point of need mourn. It is their way of expressing their weariness and discomfort and that adults react to remedy.

Distinguish types of crying baby:
The first clue to identify the reason for every sob is knowing that "all tears are not equal," said Ana Isabel Fraga, author of 'The instruction manual you lost when your child was born. 'The sound, the intensity and pace of crying can varyde pending on the cause that provokes. And knowing how each type of sounds helps greatly regret. But also to identify the cry, it should meet the body expressions and other external factors, such as "the situation where the baby was to mourn before, how was your day or other environmental aspects such astemperature, noise or lights, "says Fraga.

2012-12-28

Baby's first days at home, instruction manual

Sort family visits, rest when he sleeps and does not neglect the power of parents are key to coping with the new baby

Returning home with the baby after birthcan cause great anxiety in parents beginner. But no need to panic. Here are six tips for coping essential baby arrives successfully. Some claim that, with the help and advice of family and health professionals, the best weapons to survive in the first few weeks will be the instinct, affection and common sense of parents. And besides, are five common problems baby we should knowand how to act in each case.

Six essential tips for coping with the new baby

Learning to cope with the arrival of the baby home can be vital for many first-time parents for which there are six basic guidelines should know.

Visits from family and friends should be ordered not to disturb the baby and the couple

1.Sort the visits: Visits from family and friends to see the baby during the first few days are flattering, but sometimes also can become disruptive and stressful if not set limits and schedules. It is necessary to respect the privacy of parents and tranquility of the small,  something that will be difficult if you must continually attend to visitors.

2.Harnessing the baby sleep: The nights with a newborn can be exhausting, especially if you are breast feeding. So during the day is convenient for parents to accommodate the child's pace and take advantage of times when he sleeps to rest, and even sleep, if possible.

3.Focus on the baby: During the first weeks the infant needs all the attention and dedication of their parents and, especially, of the nursing mother. Light housekeeping, meals or legal proceedings following the arrival of ababy can be delegated to a partner or family member to help.

4.Caring food: The lack of time available to parents during the first weeks at home is the cause of that, in many cases, first-time parents neglect their diet and gain unhealthy habits like eating fast and untimely. We must try not to skip meals and not speed them up too. And, of course, ask for help from the family.

5.Take advantage of the experience of others: A mother, a brother or a friend who has been through the same situation can be helpful for new parents during the first weeks. Your experience will be very useful to learn basics of baby care, such as those on bathing, breast feeding or artificial feeding and how to soothe crying, among others.

6.No lock themselves at home: Except when directed by the specialist, once the mother and baby were discharged from the hospital, parents can go out together on a regular basis to take short walks, but always have to apply prudence and common sense to avoid unnecessary risks on the ride. These outputs would enhance the baby, the parents will assist the mother to relax and begin to lose weight after childbirth.

Instinct, love and common sense to 'survive' :
Leaving the hospital after delivery and return with the newborn child to the home is often a relief for experienced parents. However, gilts couples (55%) out number those that are not. And these need, urgently, to learn some tips for coping with the first few weeks.

The best weapon that parents have is their own instinct

The best weapon that mothers and fathers have to face the first days of your baby at home is their instinct. This, coupled with the intense daily living that experience with your child during the first few weeks are the best instructions for taking care of your baby. The prestigious British psychoanalyst Donald Woods Winnicott, who studied in depth the relationship between mother and infant, baptized

the maternal instinct with the name of "primary maternal capacity", which he described as an instinctive deployment depends neither knowledge nor intellectual capacity of the mother and that, therefore, neither be taught nor can learn.
According to this expert, this capability maternal causes every way exalt the woman to control the baby, which would lead to neglect, completely, the remaining issues.

Most common problems baby we should know:

For more than 258,000 mothers (and their partners) who gave birth in 2011 to her first child back home, instead of relief, could make a big concern and fear of not knowing how to act and react to the needs of your baby no longer able to identify any signs of danger. And is that the neonatal period, comprising the first 28 days of a baby's life, is considered by the World Health Organization as the most vulnerable stage for small. Therefore, it is advisable that new parents seek the advice and help of health professionals, both during pregnancy and during the post partum hospital stay, to solve and discuss any concerns.

The most common problems that may occur in infants during the first months and the tips on how act in each case.

1.Fever: when it detects that the baby's temperature is above 38º C,  its hould go to the pediatric ward for observation.
2.Fungi in the mouth: If there are spots or white patches (known asthrush) that cover the inside of the mouth, and sometimes his tongue, talk to your pediatrician to indicate the most appropriate treatment.
3.Vomiting and depositions: It is normal for small regurgitate some milk after feedings, but if the vomit is issued with great force in large numbers, you should go to the pediatric consultation. Meanwhile, the pace and consistency of stools are variable, but if the stool is hard as balls, the baby may be constipated, so you should see your doctor.
4.Chafing: Care must irritations of the skin covering the diaper,  produced by moisture of feces and urine.
5.Nasal obstruction: When the mucus clogging his nose, so that the baby breathe better, can be cleaned with saline and aspirate the mucus with a bulb syringe or nasal aspirator.

2012-12-27

Ten Tips for washing baby clothes

During the first few months, it is essential to wash the baby's clothes separately with mild soap and no fabric softeners

Thebaby's skinis much more delicate and sensitive than adults, so it is necessary for parents to pay particular attention to washing and garment care and clothes that are in direct contact with it. During the first few months you shoulduse specific laundry detergent for babiesor delicate andavoid fabric softener and other additives. In any case, the baby's skin will show if a product thatwill produce a negative reaction.

Basic Guidelines

Before washing any garment, whether baby or adult, it is essential to follow some basic guidelines that promote the correct washing, prevent deterioration and prevent garments suffer any damage:
•Separate color: white clothes in the washing must separate that which presents strong or intense colors. Thus, it prevents clothes and color fade spoil the lighter.

•Separate by fabric type: Some garments are made ​​with delicate fabrics that require more care in washing. You should avoid clean these garments are more resistant to damage them, and follow these guidelines to clean thistype of specific tissues.

•Empty pockets: you need to check the pockets of the clothes are empty to prevent other elements or objects that can damage clothes washing interfere.

•Pay attention to the labels: the label contains the information necessary to care for the clothes properly. Importantly, the various symbols that indicate, among otherthings, the type of washing, the useof additives and guidelines recommended drying and ironing.

Specific tips for baby clothes

1.All clothing: applying guidelines washing baby clothes should not just limited to clothing, it is also important to pay attention to the washingof beddingwhich is touching the baby, and with other items such as gauze, bibs or stuffed animals.

2.Independent Washing: during the first six months, you should wash the baby's clothes separately from other garments of people living in the home. This is particularly advisable to avoid contact with dirt extreme or dangerous products that may contain other clothes.One can also use protective clothes bag.

3.Delicates: more delicate clothes (asincluding embroidery, beading or lace) and which is made ​​more sensitive fabrics (like silk) Hand washing is preferable to prevent damage or break the contact with other clothes in the washer.

4.Woolens: washing wool clothing baby can be performed by hand or,if desired, in the washing machine on a gentle cycle for delicate or specific to wool. Pay special attention tothe washing temperature, which must be kept warm. On drying, it is bestnot to hang clothesand let it dry on a flat surface (can be placed under a towel to absorb moisture) so they do not stretch or deform.

5.Remove any tough stains: baby clothing is stained with stool frequency, leftovers or vomiting that must be add ressed befor eproceeding with normal washing.It is important to act quickly so that the stain does not dry out and put the garment so aked with a little soap to remove dirt more important.

6.Soap Type: during the first months is recommended to use both hand washing and machine, a special soap for delicate or specific baby. As the baby grows from about six months you may introduce other detergents and apply them first on a single garment to check that it has no negative reaction on the baby's skin.

7.Using softeners and additives: bothsoftening and other additives that are often used for clothes (bleach and other cleaning fluid) may contain chemicals harmful to the delicate skin of newborn baby, especially if there are remains afterwashing. You can avoid the use of these products in the first months and then gradually incorporate by tests on a single garment.

8.Hand Washing: When washing clothes by hand is necessary to payspecial attention to the final rinse to avoid leaving traces of soap or detergent on the clothes.

9.Machine wash: if possible, you can use a program that includes double rinse to prevent remaining detergent residue on clothing. When accumulated baby clothes is not enough to charge the entire washing program can choose a reduced charge.

10.Ironing: many baby clothes do notneed ironing but when so, avoid using very high temperatures in the iron that can damage delicate garments which are composed of sensitive tissues.

2012-08-09

Tricks to teach your baby to talk

Affection is the spark that ignites the first language exchange that occurs between the baby and his mother. It takes place daily in everyday situations and in the food and hygiene care baby needs for its development.

When we interact with our baby, we realize that as they mature, they become increasingly social beings and that communicate long before he mastered the complex rules of language. They are able to empathize with the adult.

The mother-child communication

Baby talking to his mom
This link between mother and child plays a key role in infant cognitive development and is essential for establishing the first foundations of the pre-verbal communication. This first initial communication is established through the intimate emotional exchange that takes place during the initial situations of biological care and ensure the socio-emotional development.

Stimulate your baby's language
In any communication are at least two people they interact, but in this case, one is a baby. To help your child develop their language is necessary:

1. Want to connect with your baby: we must stand face to face with him to show that we are interested in everything he says or does.

2. Interpret their actions as if trying to communicate something: should try to guess what the baby is telling us, though at first we are sure to have hit.

3. Finding the time or the right situation to keep this dialogue: will be easier if we collaborate with the baby and do when you are rested and active. Enjoy health everyday situations, small family rituals and, above all, play.

4. Expect any reaction the child to respond.

5. Listen to imitate any vowel production, Thus encouraging him to do or say again.

6. Play in promoting the development of communication: recreational activities are an ideal resource for language development of your baby. The game is a pleasurable activity in which children discover the world, the qualities of objects (soft, hard, cold, warm ...) and the rules governing their little universe. Playing also looking to repeat again and again, we display all abilities and we favor the understanding of the situation. The more games that connect young children with adults are cuckoo-after, tickle, horses or nannies. Later start to connect with toys offer them, but anything can help us to play with him a piece of paper that is broken, a blanket that hides your view then appear or water from the tap. Everyday space that holds no surprises adults, becomes a wonderland for children to explore.

7. Pique your interest: starting from the beginning with his attention and participation is up to you, of you and your skill as partners. To maintain interest and confidence of the baby is important to give your partner time to respond as they can deploy their skills in the game.

8. Taking turns: but the baby does not know talk Moreover, their interventions are marked by a gesture, a glance or a smile. If all communication, a speech and the other listens, then turns are reversed, we must wait for the baby step in to let you know that we care what you want to share and we will respond later.

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